I’ve got some bad news folks. I heard today on the radio that it is very likely everyone who is involved in the points and miles game is going to die one day, and there isn’t a lot we can do to prevent it.
The unfortunate problem with dying is that the people who survive you need to not only deal with the emotional pain of your loss, but also a considerable amount of stress and hard work dealing with your estate. And to be frank I think that many people who travel hack have money operations than Al Capone at the height of the Prohibition would be envious of. At the very least you owe it to them to help make it easy for them to piece together the money trail and ensure that they are able to access all of your finances.
There are many Estate Planning concerns and strategies, ranging from a simple Will and Testament; to elaborate Trust Funds and use of planning tools such as Roth IRAs and 529 Plans to skip generation tax -those are all great fodder for future thought, but before you think of any of that keep it simple, and just create a master record of where all of your Assets and Liabilities are located – you are going to need that list later if you do decide to do any Estate Planning regardless.
There are many players of this game who have authorization from spouses (and perhaps pets…) to open accounts in their names too, so make sure you are also telling your loved ones what accounts you opened in their names with your money, not just your own! I’m going to get judgmental on you here, I hope you are OK with that:
If you play the credit card game you have a duty to your significant others to create a list of accounts and processes to help them unravel your finances.
Creating The Master List
This is a highly confidential document, it requires all of the information for another person to obtain access to your accounts. With that in mind I would recommend splitting the data into several documents, with a key on each that allows referencing across the documents, such as the following:
- Index Document: List the locations of other documents in series. Anything stored online should be password protected, and don’t keep everything on the same folder. I would recommend that the Index Document has a hard copy, ideally with a copy stored in a location outside of the home in the event that it is lost in a fire.
- Overview Document: List the Institutional Account Names and Types. Within this I include notations regarding impact for liquidation or termination of account. For example, there are rules to follow if your spouse inherits an IRA, and also there are implications if credit cards are closed to early (potential loss of points) I wouldn’t normally focus on cards but since we are focused on a Travel Hacker profile here there will be a lot of these cards that will require shutting down.
- Account Numbers Sheet: A simple, three section document listing the Reference Number and Account Number and Online Username. This will be used with the Overview document to complete the puzzle of the location and details of the accounts.
- Account Password Sheet: A simple two section document with Reference Number, and Password. This document will give the way into the account, but without the account numbers or online user name will be useless if found.
You don’t need to take the steps here to separate the data if you feel comfortable having it in a single location, the real key is to ensure that the entire document, or the Index Document is in a place that will be found by the survivor in the event of your death. If you decide to store them in a Bank Safety Deposit box you must ensure that the survivor knows that there is a Safety Deposit box at that bank!
Resources: please feel free to download my versions of this in excel and word format below:
1. Index Document for location of personal finances (word)
2. Overview Document (excel)
3. Account Numbers Sheet (excel)
4. Account Password Sheet (excel)
MasterList Lite Edition
Many of you will claim to be too busy to create the lists in the manner stated above, I can agree with that. However, you simply have to do at least a ‘Lite’ version of this to help them out, it will be a simplified list as follows:
The Lite version will just list the institution where you have an account, your significant others will need to track down the value and account numbers by contacting them and using your SSN to access. It will be more time consuming for them, but at least you are letting them know where to look, which will be a wonderful help to them.
Resources: please feel free to download my versions of this in word format below:
MasterList Lite (word)
Mapping the moving Money
Unfortunately, thus far we are only talking here about money when stationary, but it is as important to map out money movements and processes in order to catch any money that is ‘in cycle’.
For example, I currently have a Manufactured Spending method that involves being mailed $5,000 that I charge to a specific card. If I order the monetary instrument on day 1, the card is charged, but until I receive the letter there is money ‘in play’ if I was to die during the in play period my wife would see a charge for $5,000 and no knowledge of what or when that is coming back in, therefore it could be viewed as a long term debt, causing stress. Furthermore that process requires a letter to arrive at my house packed with $5,000 in goodies, without knowing about this process that letter may be missed or discarded.
The money mapping letter should include access to trusted friends who can help explain, for example, if you learned of the $5,000 manufacturing spend here then write a note explaining the process, and include my email address for any further help. Likewise if you learned of something on a forum such as Flyertalk please include the name of the person who shared a deal with you via Private Message or the thread that explains it further.
Here is a good comment for mapping the movement of your manufactured spending:
1 Amazon Payments: Each month I send approximately $1000 from my Amazon Payments account to yours, this is done via email from address XXX@gmail.com to address YYY@gmail.com when it arrives in YYY account I cash it out to the bank using an electronic transfer.
There are 4 accounts that I use for this process, you need to check in each of them to make sure that there isn’t any funds sitting around that you can cash out. Go to Amazonpayments.com and login as follows The accounts are:
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AAA@gmail.com password: springstein
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BBB@gmail.com password: clapton
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XXX@gmail.com password: jagger
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YYY@gmail.com password: mileyrules
Again, if you prefer you can split up this into two documents so that you don’t leave your password with your email, but if you are going for the ‘Lite’ approach this is a case where I think you should have the passwords in one place, since calling into Amazon Payments to explain the situation and look at 4 accounts is going to be very difficult.
Resources: please feel free to download my versions of this below:
Movement of Money document (word)
When mapping money movements I recommend keeping a diary for a month too, that is a good way to track your manufactured spending and make sure you don’t forget about the $10,000 in Vanilla Reload cards you wash through Bluebird each month.. oops! Just think, especially if money is tight what would happen if they didn’t know you were playing with fire and had a good 5 figure amount of money in play on a seemingly innocent looking card?
UPDATE
Some Readers have asked me for an older version of these files, so please find them below in Office 97-2003 format.
1. Index Document for location of personal finances – 97-2003 Format
2. Overview Document 97 – 2003 Format
3. Account Numbers Sheet 97 – 2003 Format
4. Account Password Sheet 97 – 2003 Format
MasterList Lite 97 – 2003 Format
Movement of Money document 97 – 2003 Format
Rapid Travel Chai says
I have far outgrown the hard copy in case of emergency lists I have left, too hard to keep updated and secure. This is a great roadmap to be smarter and safer.
Matt says
Yep, I agree hard copies are tough to keep accurate. There might be some value in them for an overview of certain accounts, but I have opened so many for bonuses, beyond credit cards that tracking them all without Excel is a nightmare!
Elaine says
Great post with info/reminders we all should consider. I am reminded of the efforts of survivors both at work and at home to figure out PWs of people lost on 9/11. “Did he have a pet?” and “Do you know the make of her first car” were questions tossed about as loved ones and colleagues tried to puzzle out PWs that disappeared with their owners.
I have a system where I track PWs and account info. I use stars (***) and number signs (###) as part of the PW so if someone hacks into my online list, it is not easy for them but will be easy (or solvable) for my husband or kids should I be gone or indisposed. They know the filename which is not something that might lead a hacker to think PWs and acct info is there.
So if a PW is CostaRica22 I might list it as:
**s****c*## (where we went when child2 was 12, caps where expected, aunt J’s anniv date year)
If the first letter of each word is a song title, it might be:
t**p**## (song child1 refused to sing in preschool, repeated letters are caps, followed by month in which we typically sing that song)
These hints also help me puzzle out a PW I may have chosen months or even years earlier that is little used. I try to use a limited number of words and numbers but vary the combos and order and the words tend to vary as the years go by. I also use words transliterated from a non-Roman language which my family is familiar enough with.
If there are secret questions attached to an acct, I might include hints like:
car mom learned to drive on, grandma B’s favorite color, color of aunt S’s curtains which always made us laugh
My husband/kids should remember these as they are often based on favorite family stories/jokes. Ideally they will be less transparent to others.
I use PWs like CostaRica22 for less important accounts – like groupon or some shopping portal – and PWs that are less straightforward for banks and more important accounts.
Certainly not foolproof but my intent was to 1) keep a record, 2) do it in a way that was clear to those to whom it needs to be clear but less transparent to others, and 3) keep it as simple as possible.
Elaine says
PS – I keep track of user names the very same way.
Matt says
Thanks Elaine, good advice there. And yes, it is a miserable job to try to piece things together when you don’t have the data.
At the very least just sharing that you have certain accounts somewhere – as per the ‘lite’ version is a great help.
Elenor says
Good lord! Just get KeePass or LastPass or any of a number of open source/free (or even paid) password vaults! I use KeePass. There is a master password to get in (which my (nonlocal) family has) and then everything else is organized by ‘folder’ (bank, credit cards, email addys, and so on). I keep all my notes: here’s the status, here are the password clues and hints. ALL the info about ALL my passwords, accounts, the addresses and phone numbers of everything — credit card co’s, hotel and rental card programs, and on and on. *I* use it all the time when I’m operating my life — and all the info that might be needed if I die or become incapacitated.
When my husband died unexpectedly in 2011, I discovered we had NOT done as good a job as we believed we had in making sure I was prepared to go on “if he died.” (He was SO not supposed to die!) I had account numbers and URLs but no passwords for all our accounts! (I was a “kept wife.”) It took me nearly two months to break his codes: his “obscured” passwords in Firefox worked, so I could pay the bills as set up, from his bank account — and deposit checks into his account at the drive-through (since I wasn’t on his account!) – but it was a hellish time!
Make sure whoever will pick up your life has all the information needed to do so!
TravelBloggerBuzz says
Good and important post!
I wonder if anyone has looked into these online places that can hold important documents (wills, powers of attorney, etc etc).
Keeping up the hard print copy and the computer worksheets is the tough part here, especially when we juggle so many cards 🙂
I may have a solutions to the online passwords problem. It’s the one I use anyway. You just need to read my next blog post hehe
Matt says
Hey George,
Thanks for swinging by, you must have one heck of a feedly list since I posted this one a good while ago!
I will be F5ing your page in anticipation of learning your PW secrets…
Elaine says
Me too, in fact I am going there right now!