Thanks to those in this forum who have turned me onto bogleheads. I am giving our investment accounts some overdue attention, and have found some great advice on bogleheads dot org. After investing for the last 30 years, I have given up on the fantasy that I can cherry pick stocks/funds. I have had my IRA at Vanguard since forever, but I'm now in the process of moving all our portfolios, taxable and non-taxable there, and using a form of one of the "lazy" portfolios.
We will have 90% of our IRAs in the Total Bond ETF, and 10% in the REIT ETF. We will be buying the Total Stock ETF in our taxable accounts. We will keep 2 separate accounts of 100k each to move in and out of Fidelity once a year to get the miles, as long as that gravy train lasts (We've been doing that for the last 3 years). These separate funds will also be the Total Stock ETF.
One thing that is a pain about Vanguard is that if you own any stocks or ETF's you have to have a separate brokerage account. So if you own both mutual funds and etf's you will have 2 accounts. They plan to merge the all the split accounts in the future, but their advisers don't know exactly when it's happening. Since my major goal in moving everything over to Vanguard was for simplification, these split accounts are annoying.