- Term Life is a rented policy, it covers you for a period of time, commonly 30 years. If you outlive it, the policy expires and you have nothing.
- Whole life is a purchased policy, it has a similar period of time where you pay into the policy, but at the end of the paying in time you own the policy.
Whole life isn't an 'all or nothing' thing, your payments (after the first few years) start building up a cash value within the policy, the cash value is the part you 'own'.
Theoretically people like the idea of whole life because they don't want to pay into something for years and it be worthless, it feels like wasted money. However, there is a disconnect between the money you pay into a Whole life and what your cash value it.
Rough example (numbers totally made up)
- $500K Term policy, $800 per year premium
- $500K Whole life $8500 per year premium
- At the end of year 1 you pay $8500 to Whole life, how much is your cash value?
- At the end of year 30 you have paid in $255,000 to Whole life, how much is your cash value?
Many would say that having a cash value of say.. $260K after 30 years would be great, because it means your premiums are free, however, this is where it gets tricky...
If you took $7800 ($8500-800) and invested it over 30 years, what would the value of that investment be?
Even with just a 1% rate of return, the $7800 would have grown to $274K. If you had a 5% rate of return the $7800 would have grown to $544K.
So the whole thing that you are experiencing from a 'FRIEND who sells life insurance' is that they are playing on your desire to not lose the premiums paid and get your money back/maybe a profit at the end of this all. The angle is that the life insurance company your friend works for takes a big slice out of your future returns and creates a premium:cash value ratio that is less than ideal.
Whole life does have some application, but it is not for life insurance (IMO) it is for some elaborate estate transfer stuff that involves large sums of money. The Whole life your friend is suggesting to you is just a bad investment, and you'd do better with some good Term from AARP or another reputable lender. I don't know it, but I'd imagine Veterans group life insurance is solid too.
PS Suze Orman and Dave Ramsey are really not that sharp about investing.