I think I did as well as can be expected on this. My wife and I coreferred each other for Gold, which says 35K but the referral gives 40K and 15K to the referrer. Only need to spend $2k and get 4X on dining out, which we do a lot, since we travel a bunch. A weekend in NY will probably knock off half of one spend, or more if we take our niece and her boyfriend out.